Oh my...the stuff that gets thrown at us sometimes. I am deeply sorry, Phil. I'm a Dad too but don't know exactly how you must feel. I do think this hurts so bad and breaks the heart because you loved her so much, and she you. My sister, with whom I'm close to, buried her son last year. It does not make anything easier but you're not alone. May all of our cumulative strength here help hold you and your family through this extremely tough time.