I know many of us are in the "sandwich years"; we're sandwiched between helping kids and our aging parents. My kids are grown but my Mom is 86 and lives in India. I'm using all of my leave/vacation time spending time in India with her which equals to less time on the road for long excursions. My riding is limited to commuting and long weekend jaunts. I have younger friends who still have kids at home and aging parents out of state in the same situation. Life happens and one has to take care of what is important.