Mike, I've never had a problem sliding all those parts together. I'm pretty sure I put the coupler on the drive shaft first then slid the final drive on. Won't swear to it tho. Probably done it both ways as I've had final drives off 'n on a lot of bikes.
Anyhoo, what I know is important: when installing the final drive, don't tighten the 4 connector bolts until the rear wheel is installed and torqued. This makes sure the final drive is "square" to the axle. You may only be able to tighten three of the four bolts on the final drive but that'll hold it in place while ya re-remove the rear wheel to tighten the fourth. A little extra trouble but worth it in the long run.